Sin

It was about 10 am in the morning when Charles got a call from school and it was the principle. Nothing can be good. So, he informed us that Ryan had just gotten a red light for lying about reading class work. He told us that he went through the scriptures and prayed with him over the incident. Just weeks before that I had mentioned to the teacher about Ryan's propensity to lie when it is convenient and I am sure she made a point to challenge him on that day. I am thankful that this incident took place in a god-loving environment. Sigh, if and when we move to public school...God help us.

When he got home, I let his dad do all the talking. No spanking. Just need to write out bible verses and memorize them. I realize he does not submit to physical pain and it seems to exacerbate his rebellion more. Not that I won't spank him any more but just need to be very selective. I am more aware of how he is made these days. He definitely is prideful which to me is the most important area that I need to work with him. His pride must be broken early and in a lovely way. He is also very self-centered and 'lazy' - meaning he will think of the shortest route to get something done. One can view it to be smart or lazy. (these traits remind me so much of my brother!) Most of all, I need to specifically pray with him about these areas of sins on a regularly basis. God shall give me wisdom on how to train him.